I fully explain my love and intents with my car. I am upfront with them before the 2nd date (if it gets that far.) I always let them know the Z came before her, and if needed it will be here long after she's gone. If she can deal with it, cool. If not, peace out. Women come with so much baggage to begin with, if they can't put up with a little ol car....on to the next one.